“ fall out of love means that you and your lover fell a completely different way than you did when you first met, the things that made you fall in love now drive you crazy, she’s starting to find excuses to avoid you, and vice versa, the way she looks and dresses now disgusts you, and you fight over the simplest little things, and they get frequent. That’s what happens and what it means to fall out of love. You don’t have feelings for each other anymore.”
But then you go on Tumblr, and you see something different. You see girls buying clothes, cutting their hair, taking laxatives, starving themselves, doing anything to make themselves look thinner. They base their self-worth on a NUMBER projected on a man-made scale. And to be honest with you, it breaks my heart. Because I know that you CAN eat without feeling guilty, you CAN eat fattening food without punishing yourself afterwards. What the scale says is NOT the most important thing. Being thin is NOT more important than being healthy. Being thin and not eating are NOT signs of true will power and success. Screw what all these pro-ana blogs tell you. You don’t have to be thin to be attractive. You are perfectly okay just the way you are.
